Growing up as an LGBT Indigenous youth, I faced a lot of challenges, especially transitioning to high school from junior high. It wasn’t an easy place for me because I spent years struggling with my true identity, hiding who I truly was because I was afraid of the judgment that came with it. At the time, I felt trapped in this metaphorical closet and the constant bullying I faced for it only made me feel even more isolated and afraid. I didn’t know who I could trust or where to turn for guidance. Until someone changed my perspective during summer break.

I had met someone who would change my life. They showed me the power of confidence even though it was something I never thought I would have. They were open about who they were, and their acceptance of themselves was admirable! Through kindness and reassurance, they taught me that it was okay to be myself and that it can be rewarding. I was trapped in for so long in that lonely, confined space. They introduced me to a community of young professionals who also embraced their authentic selves who were just as confident and true to who they were. I was networking and making new friends from a different part of town from where I was raised, and just being around them for a short period was like a revelation. It was like I could see what confidence looked and felt like. I began to understand that it wasn’t something I had to fake, but it was something I could build within myself!

That summer, I learned that confidence wasn’t about being perfect or always having it together, but it was about embracing who I truly was, even if it felt scary. I had to keep my composure, and with the support of these amazing people, I began to accept my true identity. I realized that no one had the right to define who I was, except for me because they don’t pay my bills, so why should I worry what they think of me?

Fast forward to today, I’m now a college student, studying to become a mental health support worker! I’m now passionate about helping others find their authentic selves, especially those who may feel like they’re struggling or unsure, just like I once did. It is so important to have someone who believes in you and picks you up when you fall.